AMC, Your statement
"this ain't workin' and it's time for a change. Get in bed with a 900 lb. gorilla and stop being a lone chimp. "
I 100% agree, but what if there's no room or not wanted in that Bed, I know from personal experience your not always invited to all the beds you want to get in.
Sad day, after over 20 years of hoping & believeing, thinking about to go Jim's route, will stay for CC & hear what "story's" will be told !! GLTA