Replies to post #14685 on Bible (Bible)

[MIB]

excel, it's okay.

I agree I don;t have all the private info you have and I am sorry you feel like PL and I have have over stepped or something.

I am not trying to do anything other than HELP! Period.

I know what a VOW is btw and I was not referring to a separation, although I have NEVER counseled anyone to do that unless there was physical abuse or danger coming into play. Notice I said I have never, not you.

I did not read ANY of the other posts so I am somewhat at a disadvantage and though you may find it hard to believe, not trying to cause any difficulties here or "take your patient".

I understand all too well what the words being submissive and their other word forms, like "subjective" mean.

As you said, I do not have the intimate details and at this time and not interested in them.

I am not talking about a situation either.
I was talking specifically about the WORD and how it applies to similar situations I have personally been involved in for over 2 and a half decades my friend.

Sorry for the interjection.
Be assured, it won't happen again.

You failed to notice apparently I also stated that IF there is signs of ohysical danger. That includes abuse and drunkenness that leads to physical harm.
If you care to go farther than that and ASSUME some things, that is your prerogative.
I will say no more.

Lastly, you are right, I have only seen this board and another one in the past two weeks. I think I will just stay at my board.

I do wish you well.

A shame.

MIB

[tenac]

Well you know me Greg...i usually dont stick my nose between the difference in opinion between two people until it finally either gets on my nerves or it seems to be going nowhere...I have read your explanation of what you have said and meant when you said it, to the others on this board at least 3 times now...and i just dont know what it is they are not understanding...I have not heard you say one thing to Linda concerning her marriage over the past 2 or 3 months that we have been talking with her...that has never been, not of scripture. I know very well that you know your Bible as well as most and that you would never say anything to anyone that was not of God....Once again...this post of yours that im responding to...it says it all..whats not to understand people?

Now MIB..im sure you will read this...and im not taking sides here...I dont know 1st of all why anyone would offer advice to anyone without knowing the whole story...i just dont get that...scripture is scripture...Its Gods Holy Word...but if someone dont know everything that has been going on ...what gives....Im sure you are a very fine brother in Christ...but what is the deal here with excel....Greg has had training and has counseled folks for a good while as well...but there is no need for a urinating match..We just do our best...hopefully lead by the Holy Spirit...to help folks...but we are human and far from perfect....Greg is a born-again believer just as we all are here...and i can say with all confidence...he would never lead anyone astray.....He is a brother in Christ....Greg is usually one of the 1st ones to pick up on scripture taken or given out of context but will also be the 1st to humble himself in regards to be an all knowing person. I hope to get to know you as being the same way...but anyone telling me anything in that regard tells me nothing...I learn of people from getting to know them...not what they know or think they know...but from getting to know the person....it can be hard on these boards sometimes but there are ways...

So i have said my piece..im at work and it is really busy but i was catching up hear at a break and just wanted to add my 2 cents...for what its worth..just some thoughts off the top of my head ...i hope it came out right..IM DONE...LOL!

[Diver_Linda]

Only time will tell.