If you reply to your own post it goes into and then is immediately moved from your mailbox to your archive because you land on it after submission and therefore read it, so it gets moved. That has always been the case.
Replies automatically mark themselves as read once the recipient views them. In the case of a reply to yourself, it's sometimes tricky to see it in your mailbox before you read it on whatever page you're on. I tested replying to myself, and it did indeed show up in my Mailbox and disappeared on read as normal.
I think we may have a confusion of terms. "onsite" refers to the bell icon. Public Replies and PMs will still go to your mailbox (the envelope icon) but will not go to onsite (bell icon) since there's already an alert mechanism with the envelope icon.(number appears or goes up)
test reply to this/my post once again.......I went directly to my Ihub mailbox but it's not showing, but it does show up in my comcast email but it should not since I have all the emial settings turned off, so why am I not seeing it in my Ihub mailbox, and why is it showing in my Comcast email when I have all email disabled in the settings as shown below here?
Also, on the settings page there are 3 catagories, onsite, mobile app, and email.... and you're saying the onsite is only for the bell notifications? I am so frustrated!