matt
re, "If someone's posting history is made up of 30%+ talking about another member, would you folks consider that harrasment?"
i would consider that not paying attention to what matters most, which is their own business.
everybody around here is so preoccupied with what someone else is doing, saying, getting away with, not doing, their tone of voice, what they meant, how it was taken, whether it could be evidence, should it be allowed, how many names do they have, is it fair, are they right, are they wrong, are they crooked, are they joking, can they really fight, and on and on and on....
and i'm left wondering how these busybodies have any time left to conduct their own affairs in a dignified and diligent manner. how come everybody around here knows so much about what the other guy is supposed to be doing? how'd everybody get to be so smart, so together, so perfect and so above reproach that they can get away with telling other people how to run their lives?
anyone around here ever heard of humility? cutting the other guy a little slack? patience? the wisdom of letting things just be? and here's a bizarre concept.... kindness?
there's an old song lyric that goes, "nobody's right if everybody's wrong". it would be to all ihub member's benefit to ponder that little snip of truth for a moment.
so, you ask, "If someone's posting history is made up of 30%+ talking about another member, would you folks consider that harrasment?". i say yes. i say people ought to try minding there own darn business with as much vigor as they seem to be devoting to minding everyone else's.
too many people trying to be 'general manager of the universe' around here. see what a relief it can be to yourself and to others when you finally decide to resign from the position!
:)
mark