agreed, in the end though the kids no matter where they come from, have the ability to make it well, and be a super human being. I have a friend who has made so much of herself, and she grew up in a crappy environment, both her siblings went nowhere, one actually died from a cocaine induced brain hemorhage, the other didnt even finish high school. What makes one person want to succeed, and others to not, I guess its all in their will. So in the end, the kid still has a chance it's just whether or not they want it or not. I think the worst thing is parents who baby their children, give them everything, or those who send their kids to private school, or an all girl or boy school. That does nothing but shelter them from society, when they finally come out to see it, there are ill prepared. The one who gives their child a car on their 16th birthday, is not helping them at all, meet them in the middle, you make half and Ill pay half, that's called responsibility!