Thanks, another keeper.. will study what you've written until I fully understand and can implement it... same with Vexari's post which I've read many times and is still a work in progress.
I have to fully understand in order to implement it.
I've made some dvds I'm handing out to friends that have the following videos on them.
10 Rules for Dealing with Police
all the people in this video are totally innocent and yet that fact was no protection against speaking and saying the wrong thing