God doesn't weaken your ability to become a better person. If that were the case, then I would be slinging insults right back at you. I feel no need to respond to you in kind because I am secure in my beliefs and my situation. God and the insight he has blessed me with gives me that strength. I am not narrow minded and have no problem discussing other people's point of view and accepting other people for who they are, regardless of their religion or lack thereof. It is through open minded thought and discussion that we all become better people.