dndodd, that for the kind words. RTD didn't know who I was at the time of the post. He later reposted.
RE:The problem we are seeing as these two discuss their postions is a basic problem with this medium as a from of communication. Something in writing can be taken totally wrong versus if it was said in person would not be. The lack of voice, inflection in the voice, nonverbal etc can be a real cause for taking something negatively that was not meant
A lot can be learn from your thoughts. I for one would be in that line.
Have a good day