mbr, what blackheart says IS true. But, who likes to sit around at a party and listen to naysayers go on and on?
Geez, just as a pig does not become adroit at handling chopsticks because you feed him Chinese food, I can't help but feel sorry for the poor wives/husbands of posters who are like a nagging toothache, always picking things apart to find fault. It's a given that those who post that way are probably that way in their relationships as well.
Not to say this post is directed at you, but just as a further comment on what you agreed with blackheart.
Running a business is messy but I just want to see the engine keep heading forward, even if it spins some mud to the sides in the process. My focus is not on the mud.