kkgd: I'm not going to tell anyone around here your "white sox park" story... I have visions of having to drive to Yankee Statdium for the next sweet sixteen! I do have a rule that they (my daughters) must attend the actual Bar/Bat Mitzvah if they are going to attend the party, hoping they have an understanding of the importance of the event. I'm sorry to say, they are usually the only "friends" at the ceremony. : )