Wow, that was very good and comprehensive. Remind me not to challenge ur moderation acumen ;). One small thing; I don't think one can say or assume "haughtiness " to a dumbfounded dumbass female - it's sexist or alike. Like "shrill" I think - not sure.
Gender instruction to children is NOT OK! End of story. Teaching developing children that they can choose their gender without knowledge of their parents is not ok. Destroying the nuclear family is not ok. Confusing kids when they are already confused about changes in their body is not ok.