I went back to being my same gentle self after that. Never again did I want or need to be forceful. When she left, she told me that I never 'grew up' or 'changed'.
I'll go to my grave still wondering what the hell she wanted, aside from half of all my shit.
It's my life's metaphor, that works in most situations.
lol. It's a figure of speech, not literal action. When a women says tear my clothes off, she means roughly pull them off without her having to do anything. Not rip them up. How many thousands of guys have ended up paying for their lovers new clothes because they thought they were supposed to be chainsaw destructive.
Women can be too vague and men can be too literal. Makes for comedy gold though.