It's only the appearance to people who think it is. That is subjective, right?
I don't look at it that way. Again, it's a mode of transferring communication through a technological platform. It's no different than a Terminal, email address or WhatsApp group chat.
I am sure people their felt "good" about themselves. I agree.
And I totally understand what you are talking about as far as "looking" legitimate and getting burned... I am not here saying 100% MF without a shred of doubt can't be implicated in this...
But the evidence doesn't sustain it at this present time.