You are absolutely right Susie, I was not saying that - if you read it again I said that we got empathy from everywhere. My point is that someone is saying that every red-blooded American needs to see this film - this is coming from someone who didn't sit by the phone for hours waiting to see if their family and friends were alive or dead that day - receiving calls that people you knew were actually killed - watching the obituaries every day for months on end of another and another person - having your car stopped constantly for funeral processions that were a mile long, having to console family and friends who worked the bucket brigade (moving debris and body parts) for weeks after, and having numerous streets within a two mile radius named after fallen firefighters - should I go on? I'm sure you could add to it!