I say that it's mine and Matt's site and it'll be run the way we decide it should be run. I'm not going to get into discussions with you about increasingly intricate minutae of definitions and why we run the site as we do.
We just do.
By your definitions, you've been more than a little bit of a "crapper" right here on this board.
Just accept that this site is what this site is and that we will in no way force you to put up with the negatives of it as you perceive them. You are in complete control of your mouse and keyboard.
You really should learn to be selective about your battles.