"From what I hear more died in Afghanistan than on 9-11 yet where is our outrage at them dieing at our hands. We have grown so numb to death in war that we deem it acceptable as if it's some video game."
So, you are comparing an unprovoked attack on our country with the retaliation against:
a. those who were responsible for that unprovoked attack, and
b. those who house, train and support a group of people that are raised and brainwashed into the belief that America should be destroyed even at the cost of thier own lives.
Yea, I see your point. I believe that the military took tremendous precautions to protect civilians. I believe that Bush gave Afganistan time to take care of those who were responsible for the attacks, but that country (those in power) chose to fight for it's "right" to house those who want to kill us. Now, who is responsible for those "innocent deaths"? America or those who were in power in Afganistan?