OT: Agree with most of what you said except your implication that there may be a link between families going hungry and giving aids to corrupt regimes. We throw away food everyday when full and consume more than our fair share of earth's resources and pretend to be the world's police. If a family in America goes hungry, it will be because we're just a fat and wasteful society.
I have no special love for these aid concerts because they do more to sell music and cd's for these performers and all the while people elsewhere still go hungry. I personally do not find it that impressive to tout your own causes on a message board like this because people don't care. Quite frankly, it makes the person who touts to be a more "courageous" person and that's probably not his true intention.
I challenge all of you NEOM fans to one day give away part of your NEOM wealth (big or small) anonymously without touting it or having buildings or things named after you. To me this is the highest form of selfless giving.