thank you for acknowledging my reasoning (i think).
In law, i think that homosexuality hasn't really been tested constitutionally as a protected group? It has been accepted as such under Executive Orders and wide-ranging opinions for employment rules about protected groups under the Americans With Disabilities Act, the Civil Rights Act (arguably) but there is no clean wording other than the military "don't ask don't sniff" code of conduct... ??
And if equal rights for women hasn't been legally achieved in 2010 under the constitution, i think the gay bridesmaids might have a long wait if it comes to that.