OMG exel! You hit it right on the nose! I love you my brothers. You and tenac are so right on. I know that God is leading you two to lead me. Please know that I am not ignoring your counsel. It is very much at hand. I do believe that the Holy Spirit is at work here. I am not going into this this blindly as I would have had it not been for you two. I have put my foot down and set boundaries. I will not be walked on. The pastor will NOT be lied to. I already told him the whole truth. The truth shall set you free. I have more than a mustard seed of faith that the next visit to the doc there will be no lies. I will not allow it anyway. I will no longer be an enabler.
Everything I post is just my humble opinion. Do your own DD.