Sounds a familiar story. Youz a survivor 🙂. I find I'm getting more injuries now just doing regular sporty stuff. Stepped on a puck this past winter and separated my shoulder. Apparently, no fix. Whatever, like everything else falling apart. That shit is all foreplay anyways, love and sex is all that has any meaning for a sentient being. I thought more about that past gem of yours and heard a cute story of a woman who also rocks, who went and found her own engagement diamond in some US state She rocks and so did your ex (get it? ;)