Peachman, I am sorry but I don’t understand the comment about my daughter, she appreciates everything she/we have in life. I have 4 daughters. Three are married and one is yet to do so. The three that are married put in 55 hours work a week and the 4th one put in 75 hours a week into work. I don’t know how to answer that part of your post sorry because I don’t understand exactly what you’re trying to say. But whatever you’re saying I respect your opinion. She has a great attitude towards others and I am very proud of her. What’s this paralysis part that has gone way over my head.