No way, she would not be offended, just said what i called bolognaise was not, which is totally fair enough.
I'd say, you are doing a damn good job in moving on from sadness and dangers of your past.
OT Sorry to see you guys are having big trouble with wildfires. Our time will come again in a few months.
It was Plato who said, “He, O men, is the wisest, who like Socrates, knows that his wisdom is in truth worth nothing”