The most fun is scoring free tickets to the zoo for the little ones. My one guy who is autistic just never had experiences like that because medical bills and stuff are tough. Mom and Dad are as happy as I am to see his little eyes light up when he walks or gets pushed around through the park..
He and Xoie are buddies too but they both have their not so good days so it's hard to try to get them together for a party. The zoo is easy because if he doesn't like one exhibit, then they just move him on to the next one....
He is absolutely fascinated by giraffes. I'm pushing hard to get him a one on one but I need to log more hours before that can happen.
It beats the shit out of drinking myself blind and going on to feel sorry for myself. I ruined a lot of my years being an arrogant dick when that's not the person I was in the first place.