DD Support Board and Research Team

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I think actually the author Natasha was talking about argument. Here you go again
.. https://www.cnbc.com/2023/01/19/yale-researchers-how-highly-successful-people-argue.html

"It's not about arguing. It is about debating and in the process you don't cheat when doing it."

And to keep it in context i'd suggest formal rules as you suggest don't normally apply at family
gatherings, in pubs or other places where the arguments she was addressing normally occur.