DD Support Board and Research Team

[12yearplan]

I know Bull, sorry bout' that stuff and yes it happens too often
No smug or flippant reply today 
(Also, I only would go into the mosh pit when stoned and drinking ;)

I will offer though that there is something to this one:

"Speak softly and carry a big stick — you will go far." The full phrase indicates that success is likely to result when you take a nicer approach even when everyone involved knows that you have a more forceful option at your disposal.

Reminds of that movie Walking Tall
So yeah, carry a big stick and use your charms for protection: