I admit I don't. I don't do twitter or face book or any social media. I still have a flip phone and I did not catch on to tech very well. That's ok I go by feeling. May I suggest you try something radical. Show some care and concern towards them and sprinkle a little sunshine in their lives.
Love is not like money. With money you have to be careful to keep it but love is only kept if you give it away. Yes you must give it away in order to keep it. So smother the hate with love and simply refuse to jump into their insanity. Their insanity unless you choose to join it, I have had my battles with them in life and the only winning move in their game is to NOT play. So easy to say and so very hard for any of us to do.