Heartfelt and understood as much as possible, never been there. Lost mother at about 3-4, grew up with virtually total freedom
(just don't get in trouble with police), dad died 93. Three sisters, all ruffly 18 months apart, one older - all alive.
The helicopters at the start still only mean that one war to me too.
It was Plato who said, “He, O men, is the wisest, who like Socrates, knows that his wisdom is in truth worth nothing”