That seems to me unfair. She has a busy life. I suppose she could sign up for Match.com, but young people first meet romantic partners in college, and then at work, for the most part. The older a woman gets, the fewer the choices. Even for women as attractive as Hopey.
Sorry but I disagree and I'll leave it at that.
I'm sure she has her reasons for dating both guys. From my perspective I'm surprised by the men she choose to date.