that's wonderful ... ;) .... .. .the most affectionate one that we ever had was also a male . .the one I told you about earlier ... .. I mean you simply would not believe it ... and frankly ..... he wanted to be loved by everyone ... not sleeping with them or sitting with them while reading the paper .. but on the floor somewhere just looking at us hoomins to see if anyone needed the LOOK of LOVE .. or if anyone wanted to touch a beautiful kitty ... .. I swear ... he was one in a million ... I adored him everyone did ! ..