Your "questions" were rhtorical in nature. That is to say they implied an answer at the time they are posed. By implying that if I wasn't Anthony, I should not have responded to Patricia's assault and then by actually posing the "Are you Anthony?" you called into question my integrity. You implied a possible multiple alias. That is as much an attack as if I were to ask you...
"Do you still beat your wife?"
"Know your enemy" - Sun Tzu
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