c'mon now paule....I thought we shook hands and made up....
But to answer your question, no, I dont think it's as stupid.....sometimes when two people have a disagreement, it's best to settle it like men. I am not advocating walking around trying to pick a fight with everybody you run in to......in fact, we are taught never to instigate, only to respond and defend....but, when somebody makes a pass at your wife in a bar or disrespects her or you, what do you do? I don't know what you do, but I stand up for myself if I am disrespected.