taken in whole all quotes in the link i got the feeling that any woan who does not believe she/he hears the 'Spirit' is necessarily 'selfish' in the sense that she/he only listens to their 'self' .. hence selfish .. so for sure ..
"nothing more than arrogant crap made up and propounded to manipulate and control"
that was the one i saw using the word "selfish" .. my implied suggestion was more just it could have been derived from the bible