What contributions had he given to warrant a return after such a vulgar and repulsive display? I rarely visited the board. I have the PM's to show where I actually took his side when he was being attacked. He used me as a pawn and it worked to his advantage like a charm.
At the very least I believe I deserve an apology. Do you think one would be warranted if it was your sister, mother, or girlfriend???
Where I come from, and nearly everywhere else, it is warranted. Real men, gentlemen, do not treat women that way. If you choose to condone that, well, then you choose to condone that.