Re-reading your post and my answer....... Perhaps my response didn't address your reluctance............ Let me post a different prospective.
We're anonymous on this medium. (IHub) Perhaps that unleashes a dark side in posts. The real advantage is that we can express our inner truths and observations, our visions and goals, the things that drive our success and the personal boundaries that control our public lives can be set aside.
This is the inner truth that free speech can unleash. If it can help in relieving some bound animosity than it can be a contrition of the soul!