U KEEP BRINGING UP 18 YEARS AS IF THE PROCESS SHOULD HAVE BEEN DONE THE DAY THEY STARTED. WELL, GUESS WHAT, IT'S A PROCESS. AND YEAH, COULD THEY HAVE DONE THINGS DIFFERENTLY, ABSOLUTELY. HE WHO HAS NOT SINNED GO AHEAD AND CAST THE FIRST STONE. GROWING UP U R TAUGHT TO LEARN BY YOUR MISTAKES. ALL APOLOGIES TO THOSE CHOSEN FEW WHO DO NOT MAKE THEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!