bamafire1976, if I may comment. Your comments are well rec'd and appreciated from a newbies standpoint. Perhaps if we all provided some form of reference to qualify our statements vice a matter of, "it's my opinion and I carry these credentials to prove I'm know what I'm talking about" might be beneficial. Unfortunately establish in a taxonomy or protocol in which to communicate would not be acceptable for those whom I believe you're targeting in your comments.
Check your emotions and speak from a grounded position. It appears your coming form the position of emotional please which aren't always accepted in or outside this forum. Just some advice. Also , attack the comment/act, not the people.
Peace.
SS1