Feelings of grandiosity may be indicative of
a personality disorder or a mania phase
of bipolar. Also, it appears you have OCD
as you linger and can not let go despite
individuals answering your questions.
I've already described why I am here. This
can be read on my posts below. I recommend
researching cognitive behavorial therapy as
it is quite effective.
Your conclusion that this is not a scam or
even MAY not be a scam is unfortunate.
If you are confused after all the evidence,
then you still have an emotional attachment
to your investment. Let go and you can move
on.
It's a scam, there is no doubt. You will never
get the answer you need until he is arrested
and this is unlikely to occur as scams like this
are rarely prosecuted.