skunks...a woman's humor is sometimes less harsh and caustic than a man's humor... so, I say, give a little more room to the gents and, sometimes, grin and bear it... but, dont let bar room/chat room talk get to your soft underside... the anonymity invites a wide range of uninhibited talk...
Truth be told, you are a lot nicer and more giving person than most....and IMO not many will comply with your standards for chat room behavior... I sure dont...lol