you have it completely wrong AZ
you just cannot imagine the joy of moving to town in 1941, telephone, indoor plumbing, oil heat, hot water, sidewalks, paved streets, electricity
did i mention to you that my wife and I are CPA's -- been in practice together since 1971 -- still working and enjoying every day with clients, every one could have their own special story
do not feel sorry for us
life is good