Ah... Virgos... think of them this way... the right amount of water with earth makes things grow... too much creates gobs of mud... bet they dragged your gentle spirit down with their extremely grounded self-critical nature that can easily turn against the ones who love them...
They (as well as you) are feminine signs... you have a better shot with them than I... I have had (and have) a lot of male Virgo friends... can rarely go the next step to intimacy... they are too feminine for this masculine sign chick... I find them fabulous confidants... we are both ruled by Mercury... Gemini takes the communication element out into the stratosphere... Virgo turns it in on itself becoming viciously self-critical... my heart goes out to them in this respect...
Hope you meet someone of your own element... or a Virgo with a moon and rising sign in water... think flow and clean water... not hot bubbling mud baths...
astrological.coach.ksquared.dilettante.;-)
BTW... to keep the second line of your post from running into a short title on the message list... When you go down to the second line of the post... hit the space bar for part of the line... fills it in with spaces... the dopey machine accepts them as words. Then when you start writing, your first line of the message stays hidden in the display...