Groan... I feel for you fung.
They never show the the homeless and alcoholic Vets in those commercials, that I have to deal with at my place of work. Don't get me wrong, I'm still proud I was in the Corps, but in my case it taught me an appreciation for other cultures, due to the nature of my assignment.
If you'd like I'd be happy to talk to him, just to give him both sides, pro and con. Just PM me and I'll give you my phone number.