Darn, that's tough. I know a guy named (A)rt (K)elly and I heard of a chick named (A)nna (K)arenina. I know AK47's neutralize all genders, and, if I wasn't afraid of being vulgar, I'd suggest that (A)ss (K)issers come in all flavors.
What am I to do?
Must I guess if you are you?
For surely I have more to do
Than try to pick between the two.
Fred
Edit ... I ain't sure about you, but I sure ain't gender neutral!
VIVE LA DIFFERENCE!!!