exceo, tell your wife from one woman to another to give you a big break. she will be the happiest of all when this all plays out eventually, and it will. I just look at it as a little time of sacrifice for the greater good. we KNOW what we have its just a matter of bringing it to the surface, like i said a year or so ago, i wont be upset till end of 2010 if we are still in the same place. tell her to push over you tired of the sofa LOL:)