Welcome then to the world of trading. Two things are required:
1) A trading system which you can have confidence in - what your brother offered through Hurst is the best I've ever found. 2) The self mastery to stick to the system - we're all ultimately on our own with that! although having said that I'm kind of writing a book on the subject.
If I can be of any help just drop me an Email tarpaulin2000@yahoo.com