lol, I understand. But to continue--without reference to you, who've always been nice to me--I confess I've found the message board experience weird. Especially at the outset, when all of this was new to everyone. I was the object of utterly vicious, relentless, obscene, and very personal attacks from men. And then in the end, when they belatedly realized they really HAD been scammed, many of those same guys apologized and became real friends.
I don't get it. Women aren't usually that extreme. I'll bet Hillary doesn't get it, either.