I'll send you a list of the urls to every post I've made that I can find that might be considered harrassment, and I request that you delete all of them from your site.
A member of the site has the right *not* to answer a question (I agree, no problem), and a member of the site does *not* have the right to continue to ask the same question if he or she doesn't get an answer to it, as that might constitute harrassment.
If your intentions weren't to totally disrupt her thread, why not just send her a friendly prvt msg asking her what's up, before going on your public tirade?
Look at it from sensible view, Cs. You weren't there to do anything but try to show her to be a fool. Whether you are right or wrong is not my concern. It's how you go about it.