You REALLY don't get it... It doesn't matter which quote service you use. You CAN NOT TELL if a trade is buy or a sell by the color of the paint. It is the MMs who are manipulating the paint every day in order to confuse people like you. It appears to be working.
Certainly you guys understand this: every trade is a buy AND a sell. Someone always buys from someone who sold. The only thing that varies is the price at which they agree to the trade.