Ahh, that has always been understood.
"Ahhhh, women do not dress or choose makeup to please men. If we did, most of us would look like streetwalkers. Some men have good taste in women's clothes--my father was one--but most don't. When they're young, they mostly think "sexy" is good. When they're older, if they have sense, they don't discuss the issue any longer.
We do clothes and makeup for ourselves."
Some do, some don't, and there would be about every degree of 'for me for him for her' in between. I've never felt all women at all the same.