Yes, that's why I don't recommend it for everyone. Even mom can still bullshit you if needs be and if she's deceased it doesn't make it any easier to find answers that get stuck in your brain.
It's all fascinating really. Even now in my mid 50's I try to press and learn but just a little slower than I did as a kid. It's like Marvin Gaye's line "believe half of what you see and none of what you hear"
Plus I think Trump put a tariff on the grapevines.