It's not a matter of getting laid. It's really something else.... I didn't ever want to get laid again either and started acting like a hermit after years of being a confident young adult. LOL I didn't take a shower for like two months but I had to snap out of it, so I did. It's been 5 years or so now and I cannot complain. I'm doing better, but I got lucky that I had the means to find help.
Good on you and your son. I hope it goes well. That's just not how it works for some of us.
Where ignorance is bliss, 'tis folly to be wise..🤓